Ted Williams: YouTube, the grace of God, and a slow news day (pt 2)

Update: Since writing these posts the media has reported that Ted Williams has been drinking and had a public altercation with a family member.  He has appeared on the Dr. Phil show and is heading to rehab.  A wise choice for anyone struggling with lifelong addictions (the rehab part at least).  The transition off the streets is a difficult one normally, I can’t imagine what it would be like under national scrutiny.  I hope America and, especially corporate America, continues to stand by Mr. Williams as he tries to put his life back on track.  God bless you Ted, and may you find peace and a renewed life!  -Brian C.
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This is the second part of a guest post by Brian C (see part one).  Brian lives and works as an English Teacher in Amman, Jordan.  He blogs from there regularly, recording his thoughts on language, culture, and life in general  at Pilgrim without a Shrine.

So why does everyone want to hire Ted Williams?

As soon as Ted Williams story was beginning to be told, people started looking into his past. He’s been addicted to alcohol and drugs. He has served time for criminal activity. He walked out on a wife and several kids. Ted is not perfect – he’s just an ordinary broken person like most of the rest of us, except his dirty laundry his hanging out for all to see.

Ted Williams on the set of the Today Show.

Personally, I’m all for 2nd chances. I’m even for 3rd, 4th, and 5th chances. But that’s me, and not corporate America. In my work with people trying to get off the streets, I found that employers saw employing the homeless as a risk. This was especially true if there was even a hint of addiction or criminal records in their past, as in the case of Ted Williams.

Nonetheless, Mr. Williams has reportedly received 100s of job offers in this past week. He’s started working for Kraft Foods. He might work for the Cleveland Cavaliers. It boggles the mind. His job interview was a YouTube clip. People heard the smooth voice, saw the rough exterior and were intrigued by the juxtaposition. They heard the hard-luck story and that was all they needed to know. I used to work in HR too. This was not the process we used to determine employee eligibility.

Maybe corporate America is more big-hearted than I take them to be. I hope this is the case. But I’m not convinced.

I knew dozens of homeless men and women who may have been more employable that Ted Williams, but they could barely get a job at McDonald’s or in a warehouse let alone with the Cleveland Cavaliers. Unfortunately none of them had a silky smooth radio voice. And none of them were famous.

Fame is a funny beast in America. When it comes to famous people we overlook a lot of socially unacceptable and even illegal behavior don’t we? I think America’s fascination with fame was Ted Williams ticket-to-ride, even more than his voice. His fame is what opened doors for him. Granted he’s nouveau-famous, but a household name nonetheless. And in corporate America being famous sells. I’m not sure if I should say this, but from my jaded perspective I wonder how many of these companies were trying help a homeless man get back on his feet or helping out because overnight this had become the human interest story of the year. Surely whatever company hires him first comes out smelling like roses. And if it doesn’t work out – oh well, at least they tried to help the poor guy.

I wonder if this is a case of people doing the right thing for the wrong reasons. If Ted Williams had walked into a Kraft Foods plant a week and a half ago to fill out an application (with no ID, no address, a criminal record, and an old drug habit)would they have even offered him job on the production line let alone doing voice-overs for national advertising spots?

It seems, from a purely human perspective, that perhaps a few million YouTube hits can open doors previously shut tight.

In the end does it matter? It seems like this man is going to get a 2nd chance and that’s a good thing. But what about all the other people out there who could use a 2nd chance – what will it take for corporate America to take an “acceptable risk” on them?

The bigger risk . . .

Actually the biggest risk taker in this story isn’t corporate America. It was the Columbus Dispatch reporter who made the short video clip of Mr. Williams in the first place. His risk? Actually getting involved in the life of a homeless person. Actually caring enough to do something. And not really anything that involved or heroic. He gave a homeless guy a couple of bucks and took his video and posted it online. He didn’t even do it right away – he waited 5 or 6 weeks and posted it on a “slow news Monday” as he stated in a Q&A session on the matter.

But as it turns out Doral Chenoweth is a Christian who regularly interacts with the homeless and the less fortunate and tries to find ways to be of assistance. He tries to be salt and light in his community. Not in some heavy-handed preachy sort of way. But in natural ways that make sense in the context of his job as a reporter.

But is there something more to this story?

Misgivings about corporate motivations aside – this is truly an inspiring story! It has the makings of a true rags-to-riches tale, which is one of the things that makes it so compelling. It offers a glimmer of hope. If it could happen for him, maybe it could happen for any of us.

But beyond the “dollar-and-a-dream” mentality there is a deeper message of hope and redemption.

Throughout all of his interviews Ted Williams gives credit to God. Whenever anyone asks him if he’ll be able to weather the storms that instant fame and success might bring, he speaks of a spiritual renewal that has been happening in his life of late. He said that he never used to think twice about God or thank him for anything, but this past year he started doing that. His words always seem genuine and humble. There was really no reason for him to try to convince Matt Lauer or Meredith Vieira of his religious beliefs.

It was actually something quite remarkable to hear this imperfect broken man sitting in one of the halls of power in our media hungry country and give credit to God. Maybe all of this was happening for a higher reason. Maybe it wasn’t all just about viral video and instant-fame and corporate America trying to look compassionate. Maybe someone else was calling the shots on this story and everybody else has just been playing very small roles. Maybe we were witnessing how God sometimes chooses to break into a person’s life and turn it completely around. Not because of the person’s worthiness or lack thereof. Not because of the compassion of those trying to help out. Maybe just for God’s glory.

This man’s words have been salt and light to millions of people around the world. God has chosen the weak things of this world . . .

What about us?

Too often it is too easy to judge a book by its cover when it comes to the homeless. What about the man or woman holding that cardboard sign at the end of the exit ramp on your way to work? What’s their story? What unique gift or ability do they have? Do we care? If there was a viral video about them would it make it easier for us to reach out to them, to take a risk and do something for them? Does God want us to wait for another slow news Monday to make a difference in someone’s life?

In Conclusion

I wish Ted Williams all the best and hope that by the grace of God he makes it off the streets, addiction free, and with new hope for the future. His is a story that reveals the imperfection of the human condition – both in the one needing help and those giving it – and God’s ability to transcend it all.

8 responses to “Ted Williams: YouTube, the grace of God, and a slow news day (pt 2)”

  1. Brian, I would like to know how you would advise ordinary people to interact with the homeless. How do we approach them? What is appropriate to say and do and give? We often provide food–but is there more we can do? And how to do it in a way that give dignity?

    Thank you for your thoughts about TW. We have much to learn from this story!

  2. I appreciate your insight into homelessness. It has never really occurred to me how a seemingly simple thing like having an ID card with an address on it could impact ones ability to get a job or travel to another area of the country.
    To be honest I think I not only pass up the signs held by the homeless but also at times the signs held by those who live with in the walls of my own home. Although the messages are not written down they are still there. I am tired, lonely or bored. I am in need of some help, some support or encouragement. Daddy will you take the time to listen to my story?
    I have known people who have grown up in relatively privileged circumstance who now are but a step or two from homelessness in part because of problems with addiction, mental health issues, and criminal behavior. You kind of wonder if there were some signs earlier on or stories that could have been listened to that may have altered the direction of thier lives.

    1. Dan – I really appreciate your point the invisible signs that the people closest to us are holding up. That personal, deep connection with our kids is so important, isn’t it? The next time one of my kids is “pestering” me for attention I think I’ll stop and envision whatever they are saying scribbled on a cardboard sign. I might think twice then about whatever “important” thing I’m too absorbed in. Good reminder!

      Brian C

  3. Linda – your questions would require quite a few more posts to answer in full. In short I would say that you hit the nail on the head when you mentioned the word dignity. For many people struggling with homelessness this is one of the chief things they are missing, a sense of dignity. Some homeless folks may be receiving all sorts of help but no one really stops to remember their name, or the name of their kids, or the particulars of the story, or to treat them as a unique individual instead of one of many. It’s easy to categorize the homeless and make assumptions about what put them on the streets or what is keeping them on the streets. I’ve found that every person struggling with homelessness I have met has a unique story.

    As for more specifics – giving food can be a very good thing if done well, and the person really wants/needs it. The guy standing on the street corner may have eaten breakfast at the shelter this morning and will eat there again tonight and has had three McDonald’s hamburgers given to him today. A cup of hot chocolate or coffee is almost always universally welcome on cold winter days. I think its good to just treat homeless folks like everyone else. We don’t usually randomly give bags of food to strangers. Start a conversation – tell them you’d like to help them but can’t give them money and ask them if they are hungry or could use a cup of coffee. If they give you a hard time be gracious, but walk away.

    This is for those random one-shot encounters. But truly the best way to be of help to someone struggling with homelessness is through the context of relationship. I’ll give two short example and then wrap this up as I am getting a little long here.

    1. When I was working in downtown Chicago I would commute and then walk about 20 minutes to my job. In those 20 minutes I would easily see a dozen homeless folks (or at least people panhandling). I knew after a few weeks that I couldn’t help all of them, but I wanted to do something. So I prayed that God would show me one person to reach out to. Over the course of a week or so he laid one guy on my heart. So I started by putting a few coins in his cup. Then I asked him his name. Then I remembered his name and greeted him with it. I didn’t always give him anything, but I always greeted him. Then when it seemed he remembered me I stopped and talked to him for a few minutes. Occasionally I brought him food – but only after I asked him if that would be ok. When I had some spare cash I gave it. I asked him for specific prayer requests. At Christmas time I gave him a picture of our family. Over time he opened up and talked to me about his family, his son, his addictions, his dreams for the future. I didn’t really help him get off the street, but I gave him back some human dignity. He knew that at least one person out there knew his name and was thinking about him.

    2. In the context of a program to help those struggling with homelessness at a local church I befriended another man. I asked if he would like to meet once a week for coffee. For the better part of 2 years we met almost every week. Sometimes it was just coffee, other times it was breakfast. Sometimes I gave him a ride somewhere, or a few bucks if he needed it. We talked about everything. Sometimes we read the Bible together. Sometimes we prayed. I believe we formed a genuine friendship over the years. Sometimes when he had some cash he paid. He was in bad health and was worried about what would happen to him if he died on the street, so he put my number in his wallet as an emergency contact. Thank goodness I never had to cross that bridge. I’m happy to say he is off the streets and on his feet now.

    Again – for me this was more about being genuine and forming a long-term relationship than helping someone once or twice. To me that is the only way to wade through all of the accumulated garbage and get past lies and defense mechanisms and begin to see what the true needs are. In many cases we can’t really help, but we can always be a friend. That said we must be careful – there can be real personal safety issues when approaching strangers – whether they are holding a cardboard sign or well-heeled and respectable.

    1. PS – this response was from Brian – I forgot to sign =)

  4. Linda- When my wife travels downtown she always has ten singles ready to hand out. When thier gone she is through till the next time. I don’t know if it is safe or a good but I am not even going to try to convince her otherwise. She has a bigger heart for the homeless then I do. I do know that it has had a impact on those that are with her since before she ever left the house she has made a conscious decision on what she would do. By the time others have even noticed the person she is already moving on.

  5. B.C. Funny you mention the words scribbled on cardboard. I found myself doing this at the house I was working at today. There is an elderly women there that is alone during the day and I usually will talk to her a bit and reassure her when she seems confused. Today when I was there I resisted the urge to get to the job at hand and pictured her with a lonely sign in hand and spent a few extra minutes hearing a story or two. It is sad but somehow it is easier to read the signs of strangers at times.

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